SDFoundGirl: 5/2008: Things are good...really, really good. I'm glad things are working out for you, from what I have read of your post it looks very positive, good luck, and you are always welcome to stop in my crazy world and say high.
Karen43: I hope she stays away from me! (I'm ordinarily a mild person who's never been in a fight, but I think that would be my first fight.) I'm very easy going and laid back person also. Not much gets me upset. I'm trying to keep the monster locked up inside of me. The monster got out several times over the last six months (beer seems to hold the key to the monsters cage). It's getting easier to keep the monster locked up (monster = rage )
Karen43 Ooh, me too! 100% German so I'm really stubborn! Maybe that's why we like to stick with our marriages & never let go??? Keep posting here karen you put a smile on my face
The problem I have is I have to see the W everyday, this morning she followed me to the front door as I was leaving for work. I just closed the door on her and kept walking to my car. I don't want to see her, I don't want to hear her voice, I don't want to think of her. When the kids are in school fulltime, I won't have to she her as often, I know I'll still have to deal with her when she picks up the kids or shows up at a soccer game etc.
They say time heals all wounds, I hope that is true, I know I'll still be pissed off a year from now because I'll be right in the middle of preparing for the big "D". Maybe in two years from now I'll feel different, wow I'm going to be here for a long time.
FYI: W's mom popped in on her yesterday at the house, W and kids were heading up to the pool so she didn't get to stay long, but if she got inside the house she had to notice that the furniture was gone, I wonder if W told her mother another lie ??
Cat03, puppy, H4H, kat727, Sara, lwb, cbk, germ, whatdidido, karen and everyone else, thanks, I truly appreciate your input, you guys are helping me keep the monster in the cage
Well "Always Look on the Bright Side of Life" I hear whistling in my head. I'll find love again someday. I'm going to be happy, helpful, forgiving, patient and loving. I'm a stubborn old German.
We all have a long haul ahead of us, good or bad it's the path we choose in life that's important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 Date I'll forgive W for A = never
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