I thought he may have been gone as well, but D told me he kept interrupting our phone call the other day w/ texts to my W and she also called me from W's office at school and said they got to see him today. So, I know he's still around in some capacity. However, Kerry's post made me think maybe I'm getting yelled at b/c I'm an easy venting target for W's disappointments w/ OM. I'm not sure, but it is a possibility.
Yes, she does need to cool it as to her wild claims and accusations. I did try to discuss how hypocritical she was being w/ me yesterday w/out fighting and she hung up on me. So, I turned the other cheek and thanked her for her concern and left it at that. I am having a problem thinking that Crazy will act normal b/c she was always a HUGE believer in saying "Do What is Right." It is interesting to know she's forgotten her own rule of life. Maybe she'll remember it some day.
As for now, I just need to wait out the process of custody and parenting time. Regardless of which way it shakes down, W will no longer have the leverage she now possesses. We'll both be forced to do things as the court stipulates and so she can't determine when I see D, for how long, etc. It will zap some of her "power" especially if we end up w/ 50/50 time and custody rights.