see this is why I love this place....I came here...I ranted and got it out...went and started reading..then when h came down from putting son to bed..we were able to address the issue calmly and productively...

ahhh!! seems it was all some miscommunication or misunderstanding...yes yes whatever...no biggie..from now on son will get to bed on time!!

so I read 2 of the 3 chapters assinged and decided to call it a night..

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