If it makes you feel any better my MIL is the biggest enabler. She got into a big argument with me about H on Easter weekend. She is afraid that if she tells him what she thinks he won't come see her!! Who does she think got him to go over there all these years, now he goes to mooch a meal, do laundry, nab the lawn mower and they are good with it because they see him so much!

I haven't talked to her since. I did apologize via my FIL because she wouldn't talk to me but he must not have told her. I'm owed an apology too.

kat

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