One thing that is very hard to understand is why my W keeps contacting me. She called late this am about something that we have already discussed 3 or 4 times. Yesterday it was 10 contacts between emails, calls and texts. She seems to be in love with OM but wants me avialable 24/7. Weird. I have a hard time not thinking about her, the sitch, etc when she keeps on calling.
She obviously still cares about you otherwise she wouldn't be contacting you this often. This is a very good sign. Have you thought about not being so available to her, not responding to ALL her calls, texts, emails right away???
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Things would be so much easier if we were truly separated. I feel so much better when she is not around.
In many ways things were a lot better once H and I S. I wouldn't be able to live in the same house with him with an on-going A - I know I would continuously backslide. It was a lot easier to detach when he left. You may not be able to do this due to custody issues, etc.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
