Separate or Not Separate?

[Barbara66]

Well, just got back from lunch. Guess who showed up at the house while I was home? Husband. He does this occassionally. Just shows up when he knows I will be home, relaxing in the backyard on my lunch hour. We actually get along very well while he is here. I even flirted a little today. He smiled, but was otherwise unreceptive.

Puppy, I did tell the in-laws that he is lying to them. They just shake their head and say "I don't know what to say." They are not a communicative bunch to begin with. So when something like this happens, nobody says much of anything anything to anybody. The only reason my mother-in-law is as involved as she is, is because of her own history with OW.

BTW, OOW is on-line other woman.

He met her through a cyber-community called black rook hold. It is a gamers community for those weak minded individuals that get caught up in the on-line fantasy game called World of Warcraft. Their relationship started when he was voice chatting with her about how he was not sure he was "in love" with me. She, of course, took advantage of his vulnerability and here we are. He tells me it's not about her. Well, it is a little about her.

I did call her employer today and filed a formal complaint based on her using company email and probably company laptop to carry on an adulterous affair. I am also seriously contemplating calling her mother and having a heart to heart, one mom to another. I'll let you know if I get up the nerve. You're good for me puppy. I feel recharged after reading the ways you exposed the A. Not sure I am telling my kids though. S15 and S11. Very in tune to my emotions and moods lately, but I am trying to keep the knowledge of the A from them. At least until their exams are over in another week or two.