I'm sorry I haven't been around in a while. Things sound SSSOOOO good here! I am so happy for you.
As far as your neighbours, I think we all have those insecurities to some extent. I like your idea of a party to get to know them. Why don't you ask a few of them when they are available, then you will get a better sense of their committment to showing up. I think you will get some takers for sure.
I wish your H could talk some sense into my H. Maybe my H would relate to yours. I keep hoping he will open his eyes someday, but so far, no sign of sense...just increasing distance. From me and the kids. Eight months and counting.
Anyway, I am glad I stopped by for a dose of good news!
