I had a breakthrough this weekend. On Saturday I found myself attracted to a woman that was not my stbx. She appeared to be attracted to me. Never mind that I am 9 years her senior. (35 and 26 respectively) I believe that if I had put in the effort, a kiss and perhaps more would have been my prize. I am not quite ready for such shennigans, however, and remained satisfied with the present circumstance being what it was.
Sounds like a small thing, I know. BUT… for the first time I felt that there may just be life after D. There very well may be “other fish in the sea.”
OL,
That is huge! Trust me on this one..... There are TONS of guys out there... However, if you are a solid one woman man with character... You will have a lot of gals interested in you....
At first, it was incredibly difficult to even think about being with another woman besides my exW... However, when I kept meeting women who dug me, this all changed.... I LOVED the fact I got to choose a new woman... I did.... It has been amazing...
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
