Jeff, you can hear it in your posts. Your anger when you deal with her. If it continues, it will eventually become bitterness. I also believe that you need to search for forgiveness. It is the Christian thing to do.
And you do it for yourself. Not for her. If she WANTS to be forgiven some day, then it will become full circle.
H4H, glad I gave you a laugh! I agree with the idea that you should work on forgiveness, b/c it is for you. For a while after I had this awful nightmare boss (he was a yeller and would say bad things about all his employees kind of guy) and I was just hurting myself by staying angry at the guy. But it took me a couple months to get over it, I moved on to a new job where everyone was really nice, etc, and I felt a relief when I let the upset go. I think sometimes it just takes time and a little distance, although it's good to be aware that forgiveness is for you. Karen
I agree with the idea that you should work on forgiveness, b/c it is for you. For a while after I had this awful nightmare boss (he was a yeller and would say bad things about all his employees kind of guy) and I was just hurting myself by staying angry at the guy. But it took me a couple months to get over it, I moved on to a new job where everyone was really nice, etc, and I felt a relief when I let the upset go. I think sometimes it just takes time and a little distance, although it's good to be aware that forgiveness is for you. Karen