Well our spot is reserved. We are going on July 25th and Im not hoping for a miracle that weekend, but I do believe that the program will help us. To give an update I know its been a while but things seem to be simmering down a bit. Just yesterday she came home and talked to me about her problems she was experiencing with people at work. She has not done this in a long long time, as she spoke I stopped ironing and cut off the tv. As I sat beside her on the bed, I could see the anger she had in her face. She asked me my point of view and I sided with her in this situation. And then to back up a little on her birthday, she gave me a hug when she came home. I dont know what is going on but I also got a hug lastnight to. I think I'm starting to see a shift but I dont want to read to much into it.