The sex thing......well, gosh, I wish I knew what to tell you. Women are so complicated! We can't understand it, so how can you?
Originally Posted By: Lanzo
On sex I'm as confused as you are.
Well actually I'm not that confused, W uses sex as a manipulation tool. I'll give you an example, in our early days of courting we used to enjoy oral sex, but that stopped as soon as we were "a couple". I can remember her exact words "lets save this for when we really get to know each other". I can remember trying to intiate this after we were married and W refused, when I asked her why she used to do it before and not now she said it was because "she didn't want to lose meat the time" (Charming).
I can help thinking this renewed sex we enjoyed was because she doesn't want to lose me again. It's calmed dow cos she told me she was losing the excitement cos I was expecting it all the time. (Well.. yes). So sex has been manipulated to being on her terms. Us poor men can do nothing about it.
but still I have to count my blessing, more times this year than the previous 5 years.
