I have never posted this, my W is scared. I told my W to make sure I never find OM, because if I do, I will go after him with a vengeance. She says its not his fault and I told her whatever, its dosen't matter, I would never hurt her (I would never touch any woman) but I can definitely go after a guy fooling around with a married woman, especially if its my W, the girl I love.
Jeff, I feel the same way about the OW! If I ever see her again, I will probably get arrested for assault & battery. She was a friend, whose D14 went to preschool with my S14 for 3 years too, and then started working with my H about 2 years ago. I know she's messed-up, cheating on her 2nd husband like she is, but still...I hope she stays away from me! (I'm ordinarily a mild person who's never been in a fight, but I think that would be my first fight.) Karen