He is so nice to all his friends that we saw, but so much anger and almost contempt I think for me.
This killed me last summer. H was nice and respectful to everyone but me for SO long. It just felt like a knife cutting me slowly. And yes, cry about it. It hurts. Your H is realizing he can't cake-eat by having his life and controlling yours as well. H scoffed at a few changes I made when he was having the A/moved out. But I always calmly informed him of the changes, let him grumble, and moved on with my day.
His anger won't always be there, and you aren't the source. You are just the easy target. Not fair, but it seems to be the norm for our situations. Thinking of you.
