Don't you find it liberating when you make your stand? You know the difference now between right/wrong? Cake eating/dessert?
And your no longer afraid or have that submisivness inside you?
You've made your ultimatum, you should stick as closely to it as possible. If you start waffling (especially in the sex dept) it may not come off as strong as you need it to be.
Ultimatums do not need be do or die....you just need to get your point across with H and sticking to the rules made by you will have more impact.
I am sure you made everything clear to your H.
Now it's his turn to make things clear to you.
Meanwhile.....enjoy the "Peace" !!
Hugs,
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
