Hi Patrick..another thing....work on your relationships with your daughters..I am sure they are good, you sound like a good man.....I can tell you my Dad is my hero.....and a fahter daughter relationship is so meaniful to the daughter and I am sure to the father too, its just i was the daughter....i know you have 3, but I can tell you I was one of three sisters too and I cherished my ALONE time with my Dad...time he would sepnd just with me where I had him all to myslef and he would listen to me, take me driving, teaching me, or just haniging out after my school events, going to breakfast just us, having him leave me surprises in my car as a teen, or giving me gifts and putting my dogs name on them..he just tought of all these special little things to do with me..and looking back I cherish it..he was also better to my Mom than she was to him..while i think they had a good marriage...I do know it was my Dad who was so kind, and gentle and he was a man who cared for his family.....I bet you already are...but be that man for your daughters...your wife will stand back and while she is paying her attention outside the family you will be building and spending time with your daughters...and that is solid and lasting what she is doing is temporary and vile...it wont last
