I want to be honest with you, wdid. It's the only way. It was upsetting to read your post, of course. I think it upset all of us. At least us guys. Makes me tear up just thinking about it.

It puts things in perspective for me. That IF my wife and I can ever get back together, how difficult the road will be. You have seen many parts of yourself in my wife and parts of your husband in me. We are similar people.

Right now, in my ever changing sitch, things don't look good. And seeing what you are going through is heart breaking and disappointing.

BUT, you admit to yourself of what you really want. Your family. Your husband. OM NEEDS to know this. Be strong in your conviction.

I just know my wife is weak. She always has been.

I prayed for you, wdid. I will keep praying for you. Somehow, you need to include your husband to help. Let him know some kind of contact was made. I don't know. Just throwing stuff out there. Become a team to fight together. For each other. He will step up to it.

Keep posting, wdid. We missed you.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."