focussing on the good stuff!!

[sage]

" I love you too, and I ordered an octogon table and may be able to bring it home tonight"

This is so cool, LL. It goes beyond the love language of "gifts" don't you think? h "heard" you articulate a need/want and figured out a way to meet it...

now if I could just accept that life is good and I am safe with h!

You're doing this more and more and more and more often!

I love how happily h worked around the house yesterday -- spending time with you and your family but also getting things "done". He seems to be a man who places a lot of his self-esteem/valuation on his accomplishments. Sounds like you did a great job of appreciating him, too!

Have a fun "hanging out" night!

Sage