I feel so full of remorse and sadness about the situation that I desperately want to write to him and say how sorry I am and I realise now how much the whole thing affected him. The other thing I am really tempted to do is to say I have spoken to others in a similar situation to him and that they have helped me to see things from the other side.

Not sure if the letter would be interpreted as 'desperate' and wonder if telling him about this site might be seen as manipulating or interfering, or even that I might be stressing the pro-marriage argument too strongly. Any thoughts NTE or anyone else?

Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09
Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3
Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08