focussing on the good stuff!!

[sage]

LL -- Just curious...have you ever made a list of things that h. could be doing (or both of you could be doing) that you think would help rebuild trust?

I had made such a list right after dday. when I was in the midst of my mini-meltdown this week I pulled it out and realized that h. is doing quite a few things on it already...that was heartening but also was a good reminder for me that much of my trust needs to come from the inside.

Perhaps a list could help point you and h in the right direction?

Sage