I feel that in time...you and your h will be very fine!!..You are now on the double roller coaster ride of piecing all the things that have been threatened and questioned the past few years.It is bound to take a very long time, but ain't it grand that you found this place and us to help you...I truly believe that most of us here would probably be very close to or involved in d court...we have learned so much about ourselves and what it takes to save a marriage..rather than the easy way out. No one really ever told us it would be hard hard work..when I first started the book, I thought piece of cake, I'll read it, start to apply some changes..and boom he'll come back..wrong...as you are finding out in the next phase..it is continuous. There are days you question "why bother trying anymore..doesn't seem to be working"..but it is..miraculously it is.
Keep up the great work..you are an awesome example for the ones who have not made it this far.
