Wish I had a song for you. Maybe one will occur to me. Glad you came back to tell us about everything. Yours is a different story; not the same one we keep seeing on the board.
I see you as continuing to move away from OM. Perhaps you needed this step back to see what you want, and make the decision firm in your mind again. To me, it sounds like you are more through with OM than you were before.
You sound like you understand what you need to do to move forward with your husband. Life is a process of seeking and solving problems. You are making progress. You have to do it your own way.
