Well, W is in one of her moods today. I was talking w/ D on the phone and then she came back and blamed me for buying things for D (she even said she had told D "buying things for you does not mean love" - a direct shot I'm guessing at me. Whatever.). She said D is entitled and that "needs to stop."
I did argue a bit, as I mentioned that W is buying her stuff as well. I then stopped myself and told her I agreed that is a concern and I'll keep an eye on D when she's with me.
W then went on to say that she was concerned my sister and mother would take G out to get her ears piereced and dress her in "ho wear" when we were in Seattle over Labor Day. I told them I wouldn't allow that to happen and she then laughed and hung up on me. She didn't answer as I tried to call back to tell D goodnight.
So, I sent her a text explaining that D was ours and not my family's and I'd protect her family or no. W responded w/ "D is a child, not a possession." To which I replied I know which is why I'll protect her against anything and anyone.
I then asked W if she wanted to talk about anything b/c I sensed a lot of hostility tonight. She didn't reply (of course), but D did call and we said goodnight.
Man! What in the world did I do to deserve this tonight? Oh, yes, I know. I'm alive and not caving into her every wish. She's a peach. There is ZERO hope for my DBing until these custody and deposition things are settled. Once it is, then I may have a chance as she'll have nothing to "lord over me" and she'll have to work on being my partner.
My honest guess is she hasn't known how to react to my last few correspondences so she's lashing out. I also know she spent a bit of time w/ OM today, so he's had her ear and thus, I'm getting the brunt of it.
I'm heading off to bed to read. Talk to you all tomorrow.
