Ok folks I have officaly hit month 6 of sepetration on 6-15-08.
To bring everyone up to speed
1. my wife has stopped going to MC because she feels she is picked on there. never mind the 5 months she did go wetre i was asked to look at myself.
2. has been a little nicer but I have to be the one to make contact. If i dont she comfortably falls into limbo state were BNOTHING HAPPENS
3. we flirt now but she continualy puts her friends over me.n I am just a friend to her it feels yet i still look at hwer and fall in love every damn time ( sigh)
we are a little better but nutrel is still the word of the day.
after 6 montyhs I am getting a little tired and lets face it a lot lonely. I was realy thinking about spliting the finaces as she fails to see that her spending keeps putting un in the NEGATIVE.
I make around 42 thousand a year and she makes 38. even living in two seperat ( and cheeo ) places we should mnot be constently in dept. but I also am afrain thaty if I do seperate the money shr will look to this as a attack.
so to the point DBers of the world.....please give me your input. ( ps i know what you think Ladey B and I am worried it will just make it easy for her to cut me out of her life.)
