Wow, I am sorry I missed your health problems. I hope you find the problem and the solution soon. I have been away from the boards for a while. Guess what, I got through S18's senior year, 2 proms, senior pictures, and an open house...all without any financial or physical help from H (other than mandatory child support which is now over). H is still very angry after all this time and I am still standing while moving forward with my life. We didn't have to deal with OW as son told H she was not welcome and I emailed her that I trusted that she would respect son's wishes. (being that she was a former friend, I still remembered her email addy)
Please keep us posted as to your findings. You are in my prayers.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
