focussing on the good stuff!!

[sage]

What I'm trying to say (and I send tons of gentle wishes with it) is that you can obsess about what H did with or felt for OW all you want. It wont solve anything at all. It'll attack your own self esteem because you'll be comparing yourself to what you think OW was all about for H... what you think H wanted... not what H really wanted, but your imagination.

You can give it up.
You can give H up.
or
You can live in doubt forever.

Awesome post, char!

Sage