Is H taking the kids to their appointments? Maybe he should if he feels that strongly about it, but don't get sucked into fighting with each other through the kids.
Don't be so hard on yourself.
Thanks Kat and G! You both are so sweet! No I'm taking them to the appts. which was part of the reason b/c H's job doesn't really let him do that very easily, plus the fact that I didn't like the old doctor either. I think H is kind of controlling, and wants to make the decisions, and it was another example of my recently starting to do that. When I was explaining to him that it's almost an hour away and the doctor is very crowded so always a few hours' wait (if they can fit you in at all) he said something like I have all the time in the world b/c I'm not working so it should be no big deal to me. That's the kind of night we had (horrible)! Karen
