I sure wished I knew what to suggest about the screaming. Apparently, she has either been allowed to express herself when she was growing up in that manner or else it is a family trait....I don't know, but it must be very hard for you to take. I guess if you have tried everything and it hasn't stopped her by now, then the best thing is to try to ignore it the best you can.

You sound hopeful and that is the important issue. You know I want the two of you to be happy and make a go of this M.

Take care.

Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!