Guilty as charged.. I am a WAW.

[Bridgestone]

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I think buying him a copy of DR might be a good idea. Also Getting Back Together.

I will look into these two books if they are audio, he does not prefer reading. I have not seen them. He has listened to the things I have recommended to him, Chapmans books on the 5 love languages: for men, for apologies, for teens, for anger. a few on co-dependency, Mars/venus, etc.

What is his definition of recommitment? Is he pushing for you two to live together? Have you gone on any dates - by not wanting to romance you, does that include not wanting to go on dates (and if so, if he really dumb enough to believe he never ever has to take his W out once he is M??? \:D)?

That I am 100% committed to moving back in, going back to counseling (to help me see the light), and the iron ball & chain of marriage is clamped onto my ankle (just joking on the last one).

and no he rarely would take me out.. I took him out. I begged & pleaded for him to come home early (6pm) from work, please get clean up (his job is messy), I called the baby-sitter (he hates talking on the phone), I made the reservations (he didn't care.. "whatever, wherever, just tell me where to be & hopefully I can work the time off to be there"). Every other year he would plan our anniversary getaway.. that was his concession to 'romance'.

Have you thought about starting your own thread to get more feedback?

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And here I am :-)