--------- Have done the 5 love languages, as well as some more specific things for relationships that suffer because of anger. while it provided some insight & some more changes that were good for both of us individually and for our interactions.... he uses that to 'make his point'. "Chapman says this is for couples, we need to be a couple first"
He knows he only pushing me away right now. I have told him why.
He wants a recommitment to work on things before we can be friends or romantics. He is afraid of putting too much of himself into the friendship/romance just to find out it's not going to work out after all. He wants the guarentee that if he becomes friends with me, that I'll move back in, be the 'wife' again, etc. etc.
I told him that makes no sense to me.. how can I commit to someone that I don't know if it fits? Let's see if our changes we are making to ourselves fit for the other person enough to even want to take it to the next level.
Because he loves me no matter what, he doesn't see the need to do that. I do. I feel we are at an impasse.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
