I think of going dark as just not going out of my way to make contact with H. I don't call unless it relates to kids or some emergency. Does it mean that I don't love him? No, or that I don't want him to wake up and stop tearing us apart? No. It just means giving yourself some space so the pain is less and you can think more clearly and act based on fact and not react based on raw emotion.

I will be ok and so will you come what may. Let's hope they wake up.

kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory