Christa,

You crack me up! I almost lost a lung. But actually I DO feel better! I have always liked RN's cuz their sooo twisted like me. Do you take Blue Shield?

I will make another appt. with my coach. For whatever reason, I get anxious hearing through the grapevine, the things that she tells ME. It's like if they say it to someone else, it's in stone.

Hey Jandn,

I'm still holding onto my letter for some reason. Only you would know the likelyhood the card/letter would be received well. It's a crapshoot I'll admit. What I have done is write a letter and SAVE it on my computer, then sleep on it and read it the next day or so. When in doubt, don't send it. If you must do it, only do it when it feels totally right to you (after emotions have subsided, pondered it awhile, etc.). Don't let fathers' day rush your descion either way.

Has he recently told you how proud he is?...since the separation and all? If so, that would make a difference. My FIL is not happy with me and has never been totally supportive of W and I.


Me: 46 Second Marriage
WAW: 38 First Marriage
Separated: Dec. 2007
W Filed for D: Feb. 2008
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