I will address this last post and then I believe i would like to stick to the issues that I originally brought to the table here.

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And I hope the irony of my perspective versus the goings on here is not lost on him.


Words are never lost on me..... I believe we can learn from everyone in our lives, we don't have to like each other to have insightful advice.....

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I guess what I'm saying is, perceived flaws or superhuman strengths aside, Ian and his maker are the only ones who HAVE to face his choices 100%. And I'd be a hypocrite to sit here and cheer on the judgement-fest. So, I choose to encourage healing where I may. And I hope it comes to all of us soon.


Agreed..completely.. and there is always healing in these types of situations where things turn in a different direction then where they were originally going. I have learned that the threads that have this weird stuff....teach many lessons to those in need.


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Sorry. Had to share


Absolutely no need to apologize.......I never asked you to not post on my threads ;\)

It's all good BH and I am glad YOU are feeling better.


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09