Hey LL and Sage. Seems like there's a lot of this going around lately. For me it's not about forgiving anymore, it's about trust...which seems to be where you ladies are coming from. Drives me crazy at times. I suppose I have to look at what my W and I have learned and need to trust that she's learned enough to do what needs to be done to have a successful R. Since I have NO control over her, I guess trust is all I have...

Seems like the three of us have Ses that ARE doing things for us that either they were not doing during their As, or that they never did. They are trying to demonstrate their commitments to us through "actions." Rather than clinching our eyes in self-doubt or pain, we need to open them to realize their "gifts." LL, lately you've done very well with this; Sage, you've been trying to get beyond this; and I, unfortunately, have been stuck.

I also realize that we are further along in this evolutionary process than our Ses. We've read the books and we have the BB. Our Ses are, more or less, taking queues from us. But they are growing...slowly they are growing...aren't they? I imagine a year from now they will have grown even more.

I do have faith...

Take care, ladies.

jethro