nicely said BH!!!

I just pirated again (heehee and on my new laptop!!! Woot Woot)

If the person that was referenced was the person I think it is (damn bread crumbs) I know for a FACT (for once!!! ) that there was not an emotional affair and no...all you clucking chickens...it isn't me.

Ian and I have had many differences but for once ;\) I think he speaks the truth here

seems like there is an awful lot of conclusion jumping and not so much fact basing.

I shared with Ian my concerns about the new girl he is seeing. And, that's all they are, my concerns.

There are some very judgemental people on the boards and there have been very many things brought onto these boards that maybe should have remained private. Lots of people get hurt that way.

Hurt is hurt, no matter what way you slice it. Seems like Ian's hand was forced to maybe admit some things he wasn't ready to. I've been in that situation and it certainly doesn't feel good.

it is too bad that adults can't let other adults be adults.

We can make our own choices, mistakes or revelations that they may be. We can make our own decisions, good or bad and deal with the consequences.

I have faith that the adults involved in this fandango are just that...adults...and they can certainly fend for themselves. And, how about the fact that there was NO emotional affair...just a couple of people that were friends. When we care deeply about someone they have the power to hurt us the most, somtimes in the most innocent of ways.

At one time, Ian and I were great friends too. I made some decisions he didn't agree with, he made some I didn't. SHite happens but just because we hurt each other does NOT mean that we were emotionaly invovled...for crying out loud!!!!

let them do their own wash and lets get back to being adults.

(sorry Ian...I'm pretty sure this will set the howling banshees off on your thread but jeeeeeeeeeeeepers....i can't keep my mouth shut sometimes!!!!)