thanks for stopping by...it is so hard for me to hear that I'm doing things the right way...I guess I don't know how to take compliments well..let's just say your reply made me swell a bit (emotinally that is)
ok, well for one I know that it's not really a good idea to go look at that "the other woman" website...it's just plain pitiful...but there is some interesting stuff there too...some mm (maried men) do post so it is some what useful..but then again nothing I haven't already read in books or here to know the what's and why's of affairs.
I would like for my h to be more open about his r with ow..but I think I lost a bit of that by blowing up the first time he did give information (when he told me how much time they HAD been spending together, I freaked)
I suppose for now I can do what I want with my feelings...but do need to stuff them somewhere and put on a happy face when h gets home...thing is h can see through it now..(well maybe that's another positive in itself...before, if I said nothing h said nothing, now if I say nothing but am a tad distant h asks w'sup)
Quote: What HAS worked for you?
hmmmm...gettting up an going out to dinner with the kids (instead of just sitting waiting for h to come home), playing, putting on some music, having an evening plan for myself so as not to depend on h for my entertainment.
Quote: I love the movie idea ... (altho' I did hear some mixed reviews of "Identity" ).
doesn't seem to be playing anywhere near me anyway...wonder what's playing at the drive-in (yup! LL's got a drive in theater still in operation nearby)
Quote: Interesting that h seems lonely when you go off and do something....maybe that's not so bad?
only said that he "seems" lonely when I'm not here...I wonder if that is a good thing or a bad thing??
