I think once you get over the immediate scare of them wanting to leave....and then them staying.....you get a chance to breathe....and then the anger and resentment surfaces. It's very common.

Don't take the tone of one or two of the threads on the other place to heart and let them put you off.

Have you got into the MAAN group yet? You will find that you will gravitate towards those who you feel are in similar sitches and who you find it good to turn to for support.

I avoid some people and just don't read their posts, whilsts others I have a really good R with.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength