How are you doing? I think you need to eventually forgive your wife for the affair. If not you might become a bitter man and you dont' want that. Forgiveness is really a gift for yourself and not for the other person. I know I can forgive my husband. I could even learn to trust him again. But he never gave me that chance.
You are doing a great job. You have been at this for 12 days since she left. Keep up the work.
sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
