Real live is....part 4!

[Starshyne]

I actually have made a friend (yes it is a male...) who is going through the same thing (found his wife in bed with another man). We have been hanging out, complaining about our lives and laughing at things. It is nice to have a friend who understand exactly what I am feeling. Both of us have agreed that we dont' need to be in a "relationship" at this stage and just need a good friend. So that is what it is. Watched a movie with him last night. And a few nights ago I went over to his house and we watched some funny things online and laughed. It is nice to get your mind off of all the things going on.

Today I moved more of H's stuff out of the house. I found a paper he had written in college. It was some sort of an autobiography. It said something like, "I love my wife and I don't want to live my life without her." I obviously started crying. My mom was helping me and she was so kind. She took all of the wedding photos off the wall and boxed them up and took them away (I assume to her house). She told me that all this makes her sad and she can't imagine how I feel. It is difficult. But I can't start making the house more "mine" until I get more of his crap out of here.

I meet with the lawyer again...one week from today.

Sara