Don't know why I'm posting except to say that what seemed like a straightforward discussion of Ian's, or any divorced DB's, post-D relationships turned into this ugly affair. I kept thinking if I read on that I would see an interesting discussion in that vein, and basically only AG and Kman addressed that topic, while the rest was I don't know what...some kind of ugliness I guess.
Just because I still think this is a worthy topic, I would like to say that I think that this time in most of our lives is very confusing. I, for one, know how easy it is to let the attention of someone else validate that you are still desirable. Maybe it isn't that easy for a woman to understand, but in a vulnerable state, it seems that many guys are susceptible to the attention of a younger woman. This site is ripe for that kind of thing, with the emotions being what they are and the fact that we help each other feel better. But as far as airing someone else's dirty laundry on the boards, I don't think that is appropriate.
Anyway, I feel like I'm speaking out of turn, since I'm not one of Ian's usual posters. I usually confine myself to newcomers or idle musings on my own thread. Ta
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You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
