this looking for the positives stuff seems to be working very well for me...
sure there are still little things that make me cringe but they are little, when I let them go and instead focus on the positive it seems they are simply followed by more positive...
had a nice weekend...sat went to a christening on h's side (distant relatives) h didn't really want to go...likes to be home instead but was happy to have gone when all was said and done...the kiddos danced and everyone adored them.
h was grumpy...but shared the story of why...yet another customer story..(his life sure isn't all fun and games)
the weekend weather gets h grumpy too..if there is a threat of rain on the week ends h is bummy...he wants to get the work done in the yard..."so that eventually he can just put around the yard during those "free" days, and heck, maybe even sit on the hammock"
1. h asked what was the second movie I had rented (rented two on sat night) and suggested we watch it. he stayed awake the whole time.
2. in bed h cuddled me and thanked me for all I did during the day...I didn't know what he was refering to...he let me know...doing his laundry, keeping the kids entertained while he worked, making his lunch for today (which he forgot to take this am) let me know that it doesn't go unnoticed and that he apreciates all I do.
3. I learned how to link threads (finally)
4. at the hardware store yesterday looking for a border for dd's bedroom, son found a border for his own room...I put it up for him last night and he loves it (tractors, dumptrucks and the like, typical 4 year old boy stuff)
5. life is good when you take the time to look at what you have and are getting rather than what you are not.
