"No, not porn, just his life before he met me. And not just group sex either, that's just the start of it."
Doubt it. The hold things had on me from before my getting serious about my morality and my marriage (14yrs) don't have much hold on me now. It is the stuff I put in my head later that really causes the isses.
What else is he asking for? Has his rejection of his faith really driven him this far? Habits are usaully somewhat short lived, at least in terms of years when they are starved.