Thanks for your input, it is really helpful. I'm trying to think of anything recently that might have put him off because I'm not aware I yank the football away any more...
We did have a small issue recently because he likes me to talk dirty (ie swear) in bed and I didn't know how I felt about that because I am a christian and I don't swear at all. We had a talk about it and I have done it a couple of times but we both know it's not really me. Maybe that has brought back some bad memories for him, I don't know.
I think also his idea of exciting sex is stuff like group sex (I kid you not) and really that is going to be out of the question for me. Don't think my Pastor would approve. I wonder if he thinks I can ever really be exciting enough for him.
My heart really goes out to you Charlie.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
