Chris....you need to prepare yourself for that happening. It's happened to me. Sort of. What I mean by that is that my H hasn't come back wanting to work things out but I have wiped my hands of him and have no desire to put our marriage back together.
WOW. That is scary. Our bombs were dropped so closly (mine a few weeks before yours) and I'm NO where near there. I can't imagine. I'm still in desperation and frantic stage. I think I've stalled where others seem to get there stuff together.
I'm still just a mess over it all, and still somewhat in denial that this is really going to happen, even though all roads are leading there as of now.
Chris
We all progress differently. No one person is the same. I just wanted you to be warned that it could happen. I, like you, never imagined I'd feel this way but I do. Where we are different is that my H moved out right away. There has been very limited contact with us (mostly my doing) and I think that really pushed me to make progress. It gave me alot of time to think and sort things out and I came to my conclusion. Your conclusion could be completely different and I hope it is since you so desperately want to keep your family together. I have been following your thread via email notices and I really feel for you. You have my full support and I hope in time things will work out for you the way you want them to. ((Hugs))
Me=31 H=36 D=4 H dropped bomb and moved out=4/17/08, living with his mother 50 minutes away from home and work.
