I had been complaining (to you guys) that h wasn't calling until noon time at best...I know that's not really a big deal but sometimes that noon call would be held off 'til 2 or 3...and by then it wouldn't be worth much to me (bad thinking I know)
something is working...
h called yesterday morning before 9 am.. h just called now 9am on his way to an appointment..had a few min so called to say hi..
I love your little lists of good things. You are doing perfectly what JJ used to refer to as "catching him doing things right". It is so helpful to your PMA to focus on this rather than stew in the things he once did wrong.
Go to the first page of your first thread. Left click (with the mouse) in the "address" field at the top of the web browser. This will highlight the address where your thread lives. Do a "copy" -- I do this by using the CTRL button and the C button at the same time. Start a new post wherever (I assume on this thread, right?) Left click the URL link in the "instant ubb code" section below.... This will open up a dialogue box. "Paste" the address into that box -- do this by using the CTRL and V buttons at the same time. Click "OK" -- this will open up another box Type in whatever you want to call the link "LLs first thread" for example. Click OK again. Voila! This will insert the address and title into your post...it will look really weird when you're just typing it in but when you hit the "continue" button, it will look like a nice link.
Repeat as necessary with your next threads...
I'm glad you're going to do this...I'll admit to having spent more than a bit of time trying to trace your story!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
thanks sage, I followed the directions I don't know why it's not working...sheesh I've got 10 threads in newcommers alone...I think I've got a least 4 here in piecing..some threads I've forgotten about...I'm afraid to look back and see...but then again it might be good to look back and see
1) SBH is painting church, and was gone all last night, and most of day today, but I haven't had any flashbacks to the sadness/lonliness I had last year when he was working every weekend!
2) Friends bringing their kids over tonight - I'm watching them as payback for Tue. night when we went to talk with our pastor about our sitch. Feels good to have outside contact and be trading favors with friends!
3) I'm still sick, but SBH watched the kids for 2 hours this a.m. while I got a good nap - feeling better this afternoon...
Someone helped me link up my old thread, but I never learned how to do it! looks like you figured it out - good job!
