I'm sorry but I feel IT IS WRONG for db'er to get involved with another db'er before either of them are DONE!
Due to the implication here I feel it neccesary to clarify that I did not get involved with another db'er nor do I appreciate the implication that this could be the case.
No one wants anyone hurt, no one wants anyone to feel bad, and no one should believe that anyone posting on here has that intent.
I do however feel that this is very powerful dialogue and is good for people new here to read and understand. Also, I hate to say it AmyC (please don't beat me up ;)) the actions occurring on here...........here it comes.......justify the actions of the moderators eliminating contact amongst board members. ughhhhhhhhhh that sucked to even say, but it is the truth. I am not saying they should eliminate contact, but the way that some posts have come off, it justifies the belief that bad things can occur when people contact each other off the boards,
I for one would not want to lose that as I have needed people to talk on the phone with, to IM with, and to meet that share this common bond.