Chris....you need to prepare yourself for that happening. It's happened to me. Sort of. What I mean by that is that my H hasn't come back wanting to work things out but I have wiped my hands of him and have no desire to put our marriage back together.
WOW. That is scary. Our bombs were dropped so closly (mine a few weeks before yours) and I'm NO where near there. I can't imagine. I'm still in desperation and frantic stage. I think I've stalled where others seem to get there stuff together.
I'm still just a mess over it all, and still somewhat in denial that this is really going to happen, even though all roads are leading there as of now.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!