things do seem to go well when you focus on what is going well.
Quote: This is the hard one, right? It just sucks that he's still "seeing" her, right? I know it does (did) for me.
actually h told me that the last time he saw her was when he went to her house to fertilize and open the sprinkler system..did them in the same day to avoid having to be there twice..says he wasn't alone (had an employee with him) and she left within 5min of his arival...and claims she didn't even say hello...they didn't speak she just left...also claims to not have even been in that neighborhood since then.
but then again he did tell me last year that the last time he talked to her was a call she made to him about needing firewood and I believed that one too so I'm stuck with what to believe...h would tell me that was then...I wouldn't have come home to lie. h does seem more relaxed now so that may be an indication that he isn't hiding anything.
we'll see...time will tell...as far as I know h has no idea where she plans to move and claims not to even care...
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You're doing great, LL. EMT, huh? I was thinking of joining the local volunteer fire dept and doing the same thing. Howzit going?
my actual emt course starts june 17th it will be every tues and thurs night from 6-10 til aug 26th...I am a bit nervous about how this will effect h and I but hope it will be a possitive thing to have me not around...kinda make him miss ME!
so doing more of what works!
my three positives and hey it's only 8:30 am
1. h attempted to make plans...or at least said...maybe sat night would be the better for us to do something...and suggested tonight we get chinese food.
2. got an appology call yesterday afternoon from h...we had a conversation where he was a bit snippy...he called to let me know it wasn't me, he was just annoyed with what he was doing...(bill paying)
3. got a call this am from a friend (sons friends mom) to meet at the lake this afternoon with some other moms and kids...summers getting here!!!
