What happened five years ago for you? Has he not noticed the change over the past five? It would seem odd not to percieve the difference between routinely crying in bed during sex to the partner enjoying it.
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I had seen 4 diffent types of counsellors who suggested various things, and the last one I saw asked me if I had had an orgasm (no). What about through masturbation (I didn't). She said well there was really no hope for me unless I found out for myself what worked.
In the end I became so desperate to solve the situation that I tried it, forced myself to. And I kept on forcing myself to until I came to the point of understanding why people did it in the first place.
The problem with H is that on so many occasions I was pushing myself and hating every minute of it with him that when I was more comfortable he didn't really believe me. I think he has initiated sex maybe 3 times in the last 5 years? He just doesn't trust me that I'm not forcing myself.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
