I guess I keep hoping that he won't hold a grudge b/c I got the house & alimony. He hated his first wife & she didn't get alimony or the house, just child support. He also told me she had an affair. But he didn't really love her. He told me he didn't know what love was until he met me. He was only married to her 5 years & had one son by her. But he spent his whole life hating her. He told me the night he cussed me out that if I didn't give him a reasonable D that he wouldn't have any respect for me. Well, I know he thinks I didn't give him a reasonable D b/c he wanted to split everything in half. He didn't get much cash out of the deal & what he got all went to attorney's.
I know, I'm worrying about it but I know how he was about his 1st wife & how bad he talked about her. But she was manipulative & I wasn't & we were together 18 years total, so I don't know. I'm sure this OW is more manipulative than his first wife, she proved that by sending me a thank you for my H!!
