Separate or Not Separate?

[Barbara66]

Hey Puppy. I always look forward to a post from you! I guess I am struggling with HOW to make it more difficult. Part of me wants to buy a plane ticket on the same flight he is on and see if he still goes or gets off the plane. Ahh, put that would be pursuing behavior. I know that HE has to see that the grass isn't greener.

Snow - His mother told me that I needed to tell him about the email from the OOW. If I didn't, she would. I told him about it, even gave him a copy. He hasn't spoken to me since. Threw daggars at me at S11's concert last night. What the He## did I do? I just smiled back at him (lovingly, of course). She asked him about it and he replied "it is what it is." Do you think he knew about it? What is that response about and why is he now seemingly mad at me??

Cat - Yes, I have the option of filing for just CS. I have the papers all filled out. I'm just afraid. It feels like I'm giving up. I worry that I may be at a disadvantage financially. He is still paying all the household bills, car payments, etc. But with the rising cost of gas and groceries, I'm strapped. I pinch every penny I can. Walking to work, consolidating trips, no take-out food, etc. I owned our home free and clear BEFORE we got married. We took out a home equity in both names and I don't know how that will all shake out. I need to put my kids first, but don't want to cut off my nose to spite my face.